Welcome to The Crucible Coach™
I’m Tony Thayer, an executive coach dedicated to guiding business leaders through the emotional turmoil of personal crises. Whether you’re facing the loss of a loved one, a sudden health diagnosis, or a painful divorce, I’m here to help you regain your footing and lead effectively during these challenging times.
In the high-stakes world of business, personal crises can shake you to your core. They disrupt your focus and sense of purpose, often leaving you feeling isolated, with no one to talk to who truly understands the pressures of your role and the upheaval in your personal life. You don’t have to navigate this journey alone.
I specialize in helping leaders like you face these challenges. With empathy, decades of executive experience, and science-backed tools and strategies, I’ll guide you to emerge stronger, wiser, and more resilient.
My approach creates a quiet, supportive place where you can discuss everything happening in this difficult phase of your life. Together, we’ll learn to self-regulate the overwhelming thoughts and emotions that are natural responses to life-altering events. In a short period, you’ll discover new sources of energy, a renewed ability to focus your mind, and a better ability to understand and work with your emotions. You will emerge infused with confidence, wisdom, and purpose
Restore Your Confidence, Focus, and Business Momentum
I’ve Been There. I Can Help.
My journey began when a cancer diagnosis abruptly ended my 35-year corporate career. Within a few months, I faced significant losses—my job, my marriage, and my health. My oncologist warned me I would be lucky to survive three years. That moment, while devastating, became a transformative trial by fire.
I survived those three years—and more. Two years later, my doctor delivered some unexpected good news: all traces of cancer had vanished. Those five years of fear and challenge reshaped how I see myself and my leadership role, instilling a profound sense of purpose, compassion, and resilience in me. I emerged with newfound strengths and clarity, ready to embrace life and confront any obstacle.
What is Crucible Coaching?
If you're a leader facing personal crises while fulfilling demanding responsibilities, I can guide you through two key phases:
Stabilization: We’ll first tackle your immediate emotional challenges, helping you regain focus and meet your obligations at work.
Transformation: Over six months, we’ll explore your deeper emotional responses, uncover untapped strengths, and develop greater emotional intelligence, enabling you to become a more agile and resilient leader.
Our coaching relationship will provide a safe environment to discuss your experiences both at work and at home. Together, we’ll implement techniques to manage stress, enhance resilience, and regain mental clarity.
Crucible Coaching is not just about surviving tough times; it’s about emerging from them stronger and more self-aware. Together, we’ll turn your setbacks into opportunities for growth and renewal.
Why Choose Me as Your Crucible Coach™?
This time can be a powerful opportunity for transformation. My role is to help you navigate your challenges so you can emerge stronger and more confident in your leadership.
Corporate Expertise
I spent 35 years in various roles, from sales to executive leadership, including Vice President of Sales and Marketing. I understand the dynamics of your work environment.
Turnaround Artist
I’ve always been a turn-around artist. Xerox named me sales rep of the year after I won back several long-lost key accounts. Pitney Bowes brought me in to turn around a failing team; we quintupled revenues and were named “Team of the Year” in nine months. Later, I established a successful new division and turned around a struggling firm.
Survivor Insight
As a cancer survivor, I’ve faced the fears and life lessons that accompany the crucible journey. I’m equipped to help you process the intense emotions that may arise on yours.
If you or someone you know is navigating a crucible event, I’m here to offer support and guidance. Let’s begin with a confidential conversation; this won’t be a sales pitch; it’s a safe space where you can catch your breath and gain a fresh perspective on turning setbacks into opportunities.
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Email: tony@tonythayercoaching.com
Phone: (925) 323-8590